Jump Jump Jump

Cadence loves to jump! This video is a small sampling of her talents!

Girl Talk

Cadence and her cousin Lauren. Lauren is teaching Cadence how to use a phone!

Not Me Mondays

Today I did not justify buying Chick-fil-a because I was on my way to the grocery store - and everyone knows how bad it is to go to the grocery store on an empty stomach. That would be wasteful and a bad idea - especially during a recession.

Today I did not bump up my schedule becuase Cadence wouldn't go to sleep, just so she would fall asleep in the car. That would be a parent copout moment and I am a perfect parent. I am always super patient also.

Today at the grocery store I didn't get plastic bags for the convience of carrying them in my house one handed. That would be completly NOT green of me and I am a very green person.

And finally I did not just get around to ordering Cadence's birth certificate - that would be 4 months late and irresponsible. I had her birth certificate ordered when it was hot off the press. hahahahaha.

I love Mondays.

We did a lot of firsts on our way to / in Arizona ...

First pumkin patch

First try at rolling over (she gets half way there and then her arm is in the way)

First time getting up 5 days in a row before 5:00 AM (to stay awake)

First time flying -- definatly more stressful for the parents then the baby. You only get two reactions from people when you walk through the airplane 1) please please dont be in the row behind me look 2) a smile and an oh she's so cute look. Thankfully most of our looks were the "oh so cute" look.

It was great to be with family and to hang out with Ryan's sister and her family. We are truely blessed with a wonderful family and it is so neat to see our kids interact.

Quilt Giveaway!

Hey Everyone! Look at the bottem of my page to see about a Quilt Giveaway! It is beautiful - I love yellows and browns. Yes, I get extra "chances" for posting about it...but hey that is the way the game goes. You need to sign up before tonight (10/17/08) 7 pm MST!!! So go see Elizabeth's blog to get a chance to win!! http://pigtailsandsnails.blogspot.com/2008/10/quilt-giveaway.html

Doug's 60th Birthday Weekend

Before the hospital stuff we celebrated Doug and Bonnie's 38th wedding anniversary and then the next day was Doug's 60th Birthday. We had rowdy time at Texas Roadhouse, soccer games to enjoy, and then had cake at Doug and Bonnie's chruch volleyball game the night of Doug's birthday (then Cadence and I went to the ER...). It was a full weekend w/o the hospital stuff. Kira and Ethan's team is pink (hence the Aunt Jemima bow with Cadence's yellow outfit). Ethan is in the black goalie shirt diving on the ground - his favorite thing on soccer. We really missed having Ryan's sister and her family there but Arizona is a long drive just for steak :).

Yes Me Wednesday

Since I missed my "Not Me Monday" post - here is Yes Me Wednesdays.

1) Yes, I ate better food at the hospital than I cook for my family at home. They had a cheese and fruit plate that was great!!

2) Yes, I held and rocked my daughter to sleep even more than normal the last 4 days. I am not sure if I will ever let her cry to sleep...

3) Yes, after this weekend I believe even more in the sanctity of life than ever before.

4) Yes, I understand my parents and everything they have gone through with my brother just a little bit more.

5) Yes, I understand the sacrifice that God had to made in order to send His only Son to die on this earth - knowing they would torture and reject and kill Him - all the better after this weekend.

6) Yes, I love my husband more after our ordeal.

7) Yes, on some small scale level, I love my bed, shower and home a little bit more too. Home really is a safe place and it is great to be here.

Weekend Adventure

Not sure if some of you have heard about our family's visit to the hospital. Our four month old daughter Cadence started getting little red pin-prick looking dots on her face Thursday morning. On Friday the dots appeared more prevalent. When Tif showed up at the station Saturday evening to show me the dots getting even worse and spreading we decided to look them up on the internet. The closest we could come up with as far as a match to Cadence's was petechiae, a term a remembered from medic class but was unsure of their severity. Petechiae are basically broken capillaries. The causes of them seemed to range from no serious problem to life threatening. Since it was at night on the weekend we wrestled with taking her to a doctor. I decided to have Tif take her to St, Mary's by our home. Tif sat in the ER for a couple of hours wondering if this was a severe problem or us just being nervous inexperienced parents. Thank God we went to the ER. Cadence's blood work came back with a low platelet count of 14,000 with normal ranges, I believe, being 150,000-420,000. The doctor was concerned and sent Tif and Cadence to Children's Mercy in downtown Kansas City via the local ambulance. When Tif told me the news around 11:30 pm I took off from work and headed to the hospital in disbelief that something could be wrong with my little baby. I must say I did much praying and pleading with God. Tif, Cadence, and the Ambulance crew showed up around 12:45 am. Cadence did not appear to be in any distress and had normal vital signs. We talked to the resident and nurses on that night with them explaining to us there concerns. Main concern was Cadence's platelet count could get too low for her blood to coagulate and form a clot. Cadence needed an IV so we could give her body platelets, since hers were so low. She was difficult to sart an IV on so a specialist attempted one in her scalp. I must say I have no problem starting IVs on other people, it doesn't bother me but it was difficult to watch her go through the pain and to hear her cry broke my heart. She had no idea why she was being put through the pain. A blood draw was done again and her platelets had dropped to 2000. Earlier the doctor had told us anything below 10,000 was a concern for spontanious hemorrhage. You could imagine how sick and worried Tif and I felt at that moment. An infusion of platelets raised her count to 66,000, still low but safe. Doctors explained to us the next morning their concerns for Cadence. They thought it was strange she did not show any physical symptoms other than the petechiae. She was a little bit of a puzzle to them but their most likely idea for a diagnosis was ITP ( Idiopathic thrombocytopenic purpura ), which is basically a low platelet count of unknown cause. Other possibilities were cancer and that was definatly a scary word. It didn't help that we were on the same floor with several cancer stricken children. The doctors wanted to start a treatment called IVIG ( intravenous immunoglobulin) which is basically antibodies from hundreds of blood donors. Her blood was checked before IVIG was started and within 5 hours her count was down to 30,000. IVIG had to be infused in her body over a period of 12 hours with nurses checking vital signs every hour. Nothing else can be given to her during this period so we placed much faith in the treatment. One comfort that did occur to us was having an experienced hematologist who knew our family. The doctor explaining Cadence's condition to us had saved Tif's brothers, Matt, life over 22 years ago when he had a severe bleed from his hemophelia. It didn't hurt that he was introduced to us by the resident as the hemotology guru in the KC area. Cadence's treatment was done at 5:30 in the morning and blood couldn't we checked for results until four hours after the treatment. Around 10:40 this morning the nurse said Cadence's platelet count was 119,000. We were overjoyed for our little girl. She did not need another treatment and we were able to leave the hospital a few hours after we heard her results. We still have follow up appointments to check her platelet levels and ITP is something that can reoccur. We have been instructed to watch her for future bruising and petechiae. This was an incredible experience/trial for our family. I feel an incredible amount of love for Cadence and realized I would gladly give anything for her to be healthy. I am so proud of Tiffany who had to go through the beginning of this alone and for her concern for Cadence early on when we could have easily decided to just sleep on it before going to the doctor. I have put more trust in God and realized no worldly possession is of any importance to me compared to my daughter's health. We are home now with Tif and Cadence having caught up on sleep . Please continue to pray for Cadence's future health. Sorry we did not talk to more of you about her but I was to busy worrying about my little girl and didn't feel like talking. Those that did know about her and prayed, Thank You. We have heard there were hundreds of fellow followers in Christ praying for her. God Bless and thank your again for your concern and prayers.

This is an email that my husband wrote and I felt it explained the situation very well. We are even more well rested now and still praising God for all His provision and mercy. It was definatly one of those situations that you "grow up" up through. It was strange to be the parent - all of my hospital expirience has been as a sister or family member. Every time the nurse/Dr./resident/etc. came in they were looking right at us with the news/results/questions. We felt all of the prayers everyone said for us. The Holy Spirit definatly gave me a peace and patience that are not natural for me. Leaving the hospital was the most freeing, wonderful feeling that I have expirienced for a LONG time.

Redneck Bunko

Redneck Bunko was a success. We had lots of interesting "characters" show up. We had road kill sandwiches (philly steak and cheese), potato salad, beans and dirt cups for dessert. My mom was here and was a super help!!!!!

Life in Pictures

Here are some pictures from the past few days...

The carseat picture is of Caleb and Cadence on the way to see "The Sermon on the Mount". It is a horse trainer/theropist/preacher guy. He uses the horse training as an alagory or some literary device to teach about God/relationships/personalities.
Then there are some pictures of other stuff - family gatherings (Kira is the big 1-0), Aaron trowing his baby to the ceiling (the angle makes it more dramatic than real life) and tummy time.

Not Me Monday

Since my dear friend asked me "What did you not do this week?!" ...

No, I did not just get Cadence's 3 week picture in the mail (with her 3 months pic...)to a dear friend. Also, I did not send out the pictures with the box of barrowed maternity clothes that I said I would have back to her about 2.5 months ago.

I, too, just like my dear friend, didn't go to Hy-Vee and come home with Ben & Jerry's new ice cream flavor (it was good, or so I have heard...). In my defense, I didn't go buy it becuase I had just gotten of the phone with my friend who had talked about having Ben & Jerry's.

I didn't think that SNL's parody on the VP debate was more interesting than the real VP debate. That would be highly unpatriotic.

And as a closing statement, I did not, would not, could not feed Cadence in the morning, bring her out to the living room and let her play on the play yard and snooze on the couch for an hour. That just might be irresponsible. And if anyone is curious - no, the dogs did not have to stay in their kennels for that hour either...